why.why.why

Friends and family are the most important things to me in this entire world. They make me want to get up every morning and support me throughout whatever. But when something messes with them, I'm.....lost

Why do people have to be so confusing? Its not fair when someone ruins an important part of your life by making a big deal out of their small issues. Some people from my group at school has been having a few "problems" if you will. We have a pretty large group-one time we had 21 group members- but recently some of the original members have not been fond of some of the newer members, so they decided to have a bit of a huff and a puff, and today, a couple just left! I was wounded, because it just shows that my friendship clearly didn't mean as much to them as I thought. Why can't everyone even make an effort to get along? And then they refered to our group as just a bunch of rejects from other groups?!?!? This is sooo unfair and completely untrue! A lot of our group just gradually came to our group because they became friends with members. Groups change all the time! Its not like this isn't common, yet some people decide to just get up and leave as soon as one little thing doesn't go their way. Its selfish and those people have really disappointed me.